Why Men Fall Out Of Love

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <b>For every action humans exhibit, there is always a cause beneath. Consequently, this article looks at various reasons why men fall out of love in a relationship they initially cherished.</b><br /> <br /> <br /> <img align="middle" alt="" border="0" data-zoom="1" height="180" hspace="5" itemprop="image" src="http://img.naij.com/151x85c/n/10/3/black-couple-arguing.jpg" style="margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 10px;" vspace="5" width="320" /><br /> <span class="c1"><i>- File Photo: Couple Arguing</i></span><br /> <br /> NOT MEETING HIS EMOTIONAL NEEDS<br /> <br /> It's a given that men are likewise emotionally needy. They also want to be showered with deluge of love the same manner in which they give. Ditto with compliments, care, calls, etc. And depriving them of virtually all these is a sure way of shifting their attention elsewhere. Truth is, not every man will go rent a mega phone and a loud speaker to announce that he wants to be loved too- except he has some mental challenges.<br /> <br /> YOU DON'T GET ALONG WITH HIS MUM/FAMILY MEMBERS<br /> <br /> Experienced house wives would tell you that bearing any ill will for one's mother-in-law is a quick recipe for marital frustration and possible separation. You'd agree with me that mums always have influence on men and not being on good terms with them means you leave the men in an awkward dilemma of making a choice between you and them. And we all know what the choice would be, don't we?<br /> <a href="https://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=6589160015449763735" name="more"></a><br /> <br /> WHEN ATTRACTION FADES<br /> <br /> No matter how blindly in love a couple could be, a time would come when the intensity of the attraction would subside. Now, here is a stage to exercise caution. Since you both have somewhat recovered your 'eyesight', flaws of the other partner becomes visible. And if yours is to constantly pick quarrels with your man like you under the influence some steroids, then you might as well sooner or later forfeit your prince charming.<br /> <br /> UNFAITHFULNESS<br /> <br /> If there is anything that could make a grown man be urgently admitted to the hospital like he was suffering from lassa fever or become sober like he had been severely starved for a month, then it is a heartbreak gotten from his spouse's s*xual unfaithfulness. More often than not, the trust, love and connection consciously or unconsciously diminishes.<br /> <br /> YOU ARE EXTREMELY EXPENSIVE TO MAINTAIN<br /> <br /> A man that is struggling to cope with the financial and material demands of his partner might eventually fall out of love to save his finances from being sentenced to life imprisonment. No matter how much the love of a man is, it doesn't take more than an expensive partner to wake him up from that daydream. And trust me, he'll wake up- they always do- however sweet it is.<br /> <br /> Do you agree with these, are there any more points you would like to add? Feel free to share your thoughts below.<br /> <br /> <b><i><span class="c1">- by Kalejaye Abayomi</span></i></b></div>

Why Men Fall Out Of Love

For every action humans exhibit, there is always a cause beneath. Consequently, this article looks at various reasons why men fall out of...

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Woman In Jail Over Murder Of Lover

<strong>A 28-year-old woman, Joy Godspower who allegedly murdered her lover has has been remanded in Prison custody by an Ebute Meta Chief Magistrates' Court in Lagos.</strong><br /> <br /> According to report, the woman had met the deceased one Dipo Omobolanle, 32, on his way and offered him a ride.<br /> <br /> On that fateful day of the incident, both of them had agreed to engage in s*xual int*rcourse.<br /> It was during the romp that the man became unconscious and eventually died.<br /> <br /> Addressing the court, the Prosecutor, Insp. George Nwosu, said the offence was committed on May 21 at 10 a.m. at No 1, Oluwole St., Cele, Lagos.<br /><a name='more'></a><br /> <br /> The News Agency of Nigeria (NAN) reports that the offence contravened Section 221 of the Criminal Law of Lagos State, 2011.<br /> <br /> The plea of the accused who is facing a murder charge was not taken by the court.<br /> Presiding over the case, the Chief Magistrate, Mr Olatunbosun Abolarinwa, ordered that the accused should be remanded in prison custody, pending an advice from the Lagos State Director of Public Prosecutions.<br /> <br /> The case was adjourned to July 17 for mention.<br /> <br /> Meanwhile the body of the deceased has since been deposited at the Lagos State University Teaching Hospital mortuary, Ikeja for autopsy.<br /> <br /> It would be recalled that a middle aged man had reportedly died after having s*xual int*rcourse with his lover in a hotel in Iwaro-Oka, Akoko local government area of Ondo state.<br />

Woman In Jail Over Murder Of Lover

A 28-year-old woman, Joy Godspower who allegedly murdered her lover has has been remanded in Prison custody by an Ebute Meta Chief Magistr...

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How I Predicted Keefe’s Death — Popular Female Drummer, Ara

<strong>Nigerian female talking drummer, Aralola Olumuyiwa popularly known as Ara has revealed how she predicted the death of the late singer, Kefee.</strong><br /><br /><br /> <img alt="" border="0" height="180" itemprop="image" src="http://img.naij.com/151x85c/n/10/2/ara_drummer1.jpg" style="margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 10px;" vspace="5" width="320" /><br /> <br />She told Best of Nollywood's chat forum saying:<br /> <blockquote>"I want to use this forum to appeal to my colleagues in the music industry. Less than two years ago, I had a dream about Keffee and immediately called her and narrated it to her, I also appealed to her not to make a joke of it….the rest is history.<a name='more'></a> </blockquote><blockquote>Early this year, I had a dream and contacted Efe of NOW music as he's the only one I could call and told him to please organise a forum for all musicians to assemble and pray against death amongst us (please confirm from Efe). It's sad we had to lose my girlfriend, sister and colleague…so sad.<br /></blockquote><blockquote>When a revelation comes like that, it means there is a way out. Once again, we need to come together as a body under one roof to rebuke and pray about this revelation I had early this year. Yes, we all have different sources of prayer but this is a prayer we all must observe together.<br /></blockquote><blockquote>I beg you all. I didn't want to speak out but I have no choice than to".</blockquote>Meanwhile it would be recalled in an interview Ara granted in March 2014, the singer who <strong class="c1">revealed she had a gift of seeing visions and interpreting dreams</strong> was quoted as saying: "I don't even have to sleep to see something. I think it has to do with my spiritual aspect. I fast a lot. My life off stage is an entirely different one. I actually attend the Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries and if you can't pray, you don't attend MFM. It is a do-it-yourself church - which has helped me greatly."<br /><br />Kefee <strong class="c1">died on June Kefee died on June 13th of lungs failure</strong> after 15 days in a coma at Desert Spring Hospital, Las Vegas.

How I Predicted Keefe’s Death — Popular Female Drummer, Ara

Nigerian female talking drummer, Aralola Olumuyiwa popularly known as Ara has revealed how she predicted the death of the late singer, Kef...

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National Conference Wants Death Penalty For R*pist

<b>Delegates at the ongoing National Conference on Thursday unanimously agreed to death penalty for anybody convicted of r*pe charge.</b><br /><br /><b><img alt="" border="0" data-x-src="http://img.naij.com/n/09/9/national_conference_09.jpeg" data-zoom="1" height="180" hspace="5" src="http://img.naij.com/151x85c/n/09/9/national_conference_09.jpg" style="margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 10px;" vspace="5" width="320" /></b><br />^{<b><i>National Conference Delegates</i></b>}<br /><br />The delegates sitting at Plenary, however, gave the option of life imprisonment with hard labour to rape convicts in order to serve as deterrent to people with r*pe tendencies. <br /><br />The decision was taken following the recommendations by the Bola Ogunrinade- led Committee on Civil Society, Labour, Youths and Sports. <br /><a name='more'></a><br /><br />A mild drama, however, occurred during the deliberations as Bolaji Akinyemi, who is the Vice Chairman of the Conference, asked Asabe Baba Nahaya, a delegate representing National Association of Women Journalists (NAWOJ), to go out from the plenary. The action was propelled by her refusal to use her tag in the plenary of the Conference during consideration of Committee report.<br /><br />But as security personnel, a policeman and an official of the Department of State Security (DSS) approached the delegate to walk her out, former PDP women leader and former Minister of Women Affairs, Iyom Josephine Anenih, quickly intervened to bring the situation under control.<br /><br />Meanwhile, the Conference delegates turned down the committee's recommendation to allocate 30 per cent of decision making in the country to youths, as well as the recommendation asking government to phase-out Higher National Diploma (HND) programme.

National Conference Wants Death Penalty For R*pist

Delegates at the ongoing National Conference on Thursday unanimously agreed to death penalty for anybody convicted of r*pe charge. Nationa...

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Kanu Nwankwo Talks Tough Ahead Of Crucial Bosnia Game

<strong>Ahead of Eagles crucial win or out game against Bosnia in the ongoing FIFA world cup, Ex Eagles star Kanu Nwankwo has told reporters that Eagles not only can beat Bosnia but can also go all the way against their south American counterparts Argentina.</strong><br /> <br /> <br /> <img alt="" border="0" data-x-src="http://img.naij.com/n/0e/d/kanussss.jpg" data-zoom="1" height="180" hspace="5" src="http://img.naij.com/151x85c/n/0e/d/kanussss.jpg" style="margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 10px;" vspace="5" width="320" /><br /> <br /> Kanu Nwankwo had been one of the country's stars from 1994 and 2010 and lead the 1996 olympic team to glory in the United states of America.<br /> <br /> He also was present for Nigeria at three different world cups (1998, 2002 and 2010) and represented highly respected European clubs Ajax, Inter Milan, Arsenal and Portsmouth in England.<br /> <br /> He told Nigeria Info FM that he is not concerned about the 0-0 draw against lowly rated Iran and he believes that Keshi's boys will come back strong against Bosnia.<br /> <br /> Kanu restated his belief in the team and said:"We can beat any team. We can beat Bosnia and we can also beat Argentina. But to achieve this, we must work hard,".<br /> <br /> "It's too early to write off Nigeria's chances. It's just our first game and we have to now move forward.<br /> <br /> "We have to learn from it, draw from the positives and move on," he said.<br /> <br /> The Eagles are to face Bosnia's Dragons on Saturday before facing Messi's Argentine team on June 25.<br />

Kanu Nwankwo Talks Tough Ahead Of Crucial Bosnia Game

Ahead of Eagles crucial win or out game against Bosnia in the ongoing FIFA world cup, Ex Eagles star Kanu Nwankwo has told reporters that ...

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