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Single Guys, These Are The Kind Of Ladies You Should Marry

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<b>WORDS FROM A FATHER TO HIS SON ABOUT WOMEN AND MARRIAGE</b><br />
I got this on FB and thought it wise to share with you guys. It's funny but there are a lot of sense here:<br />
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1. My son, if you keep spending on a woman and she never asked you if 
you’re saving or investing, and she keeps enjoying the attention, don’t 
marry her.<br />
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2. My son, a woman could be a good wife to you, some could be a good mother to your children <span style="color: #cc0000;">but if you’ve found a woman like a mother to you, your children and your family, please don’t let her go</span>.<br />
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3. My son, don’t confine the position of your wife to the kitchen, where
 did you get that from? Even in our days, we had farm-lands where they 
worked every morning... that was our office.<br />
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4. My son, if I tell you that you’re the head of the house, don’t look at your pocket; take charge.<br />
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5. My son, if you want to have a long life, let your wife be in-charge 
of your salary, it will be difficult for her to spend it when she’s 
aware of the home needs and bills to pay but if it’s in your care, she 
will keep you asking even when all has been spent...<br />
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6. My son, don’t ever beat your woman, the pain in her body is nothing 
to be compared to the wound on her heart and that means you may be in 
trouble living with a wounded woman.<br />
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7. My son, when you marry, if you live a bachelor-life with your wife, you will soon be single again.<br />
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8. My son, in our days, we had many wives and many children because of 
our large farm-lands and many harvests, there are hardly any land for 
farming anymore, so embrace your woman closely.<br />
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9. My son, under the cocoa tree that I did meet your mother could be 
your eateries and restaurants of nowadays, but remember, the closet 
thing we did there was to embrace each other.<br />
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10. My son, don’t be carried away when you start making more money, <span style="color: #cc0000;">instead
 of spending your money on those tiny leg girlss that never knew how hard
 you worked to get it, spend it on that woman that stood by you even 
when there was no money, not those always asking for money</span>.<br />
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11. My son, when I threw little stones or whistled at the window of your
 mum father’s house, to call her out, it was because I missed her so 
much.<br />
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12. My son, whenever your girl changes, if it's because of money, then she wont be a good wife.<br />
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13. My son, your mother, rode the bicycle with me before I bought that tortoise car outside there, <span style="color: #cc0000;">any woman that won’t endure with you in your little beginning should not enjoy your riches</span>.<br />
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14. My son, don’t compare your wife to any woman, make her see reasons to change until u get tired.<br />
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15. My son, there is this thing you people call feminism, well, <span style="color: #cc0000;">if
 a woman claim to have equal right with you in the house, divide all the
 bills into two equal parts, take one part and ask her to start paying 
the other part</span>.<br />
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16. My son, I met your mother a vi rgin and I took more yams to her 
father, if you don’t meet your wife a vi rgin, don’t blame her, what I 
didn’t tell you is that our women had prestige.<br />
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17. My son, I didn’t send your sisters to school because I was foolish 
like many to think a female child won’t extend my family name, please 
don’t make that mistake.<br />
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18. My son, your mother have once locked up the cloth I was wearing and 
almost tore it because she was angry, I did not raise my hand to beat 
her because of a day like this, so that I can be proud to tell you that I
 never for once beat your mother.<br />
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19. My son, in our days, our women had more of natural beauty, though I 
wouldn’t lie to you, some had minor painting of their appellation mostly
 on their arms, the ones you people now call tattoo, but don’t forget 
that they didn’t expose any part of their body like your women of 
nowadays.<br />
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20. My son, your mother and I are not interested in what happens in your marriage, handle your issues.<br />
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21. My son, remember I bought your mother’s first sewing machine for 
her, help your wife achieve her dreams just as you’re pursuing yours.<br />
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22. My son, don’t stop taking care of me and your mother, it’s a secret 
of growing old and having your own children to take care of you too.<br />
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23. My son, pray with your family, there is a tomorrow you don’t know, talk to God that knows everything, everyday.</div>

Single Guys, These Are The Kind Of Ladies You Should Marry

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Fake Naija Big Girls, This Is For You

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The way some ladies sleep around these days because of money is really 
sad. Today we now see girls of 22 or 23 in the car of men in their 40s 
and 50s, heading for 'dark' spots. These girls will claim they need 
money to pay for their hostel, buy perfume, phone, clothes, and luxury 
items beyond their age.<br />
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Why did your parent give birth to you if they can't take care of your 
needs till you get married? One guy who has seen it all and is angry 
with the trend is Rapper eLDee. See what he said about runs girls:<br />
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#tellitlikeitis #AshawoNobework Stop encouraging little girls to sell 
their bodies for electronic gadgets, plane tickets, and designer bags, 
just to be able to flex on Instagram. Our society now condones 
pr*stitution so long as you're not standing on the road, but a wh*re is a
 wh*re, whether for N500 or a Birkin bag. </blockquote>
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#SaveTheNextGeneration #StopMakingPr*stitutionAwayOutForYoungGirls 
#ThereAreNobleAndLessDestructiveWaysToEarnALiving. Anyway sha, I no holy
 pass anybody, I jus dey observe, and I get loud speaker. </blockquote>

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My Husband Has Married A Second Wife Secretly; I Am Dying

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The stress some women go through in marriage is sad and, sadly, they 
pass through such because of other ladies who are interested in their 
husbands. Below is the story a married woman sent to Bunmi:<br />
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<b>My husband took a second wife without my knowledge.</b><br />
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We’ve been married for seven years and still remain childless due to his
 own fault (doctor’s report). I heard from the grapevine that he took a 
second wife over a year ago. The irony of it all is that he claimed to 
be single, so the other woman doesn’t know of my existence. What do I 
do? Does he still deserve my love? At times, I feel like running away. I
 hurt and stay awake every night he stays away. I am dying in silence.</blockquote>
<a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="more"></a>- from Bola<br />
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<b>Here's Bunmi's advise to Bola:</b><br />
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Have you really confirmed that your husband has a second wife by asking him? </blockquote>
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It’s amazing the unnecessary pain we put ourselves through because of 
lack of dialogue. Men could be as emotionally strung as women. The fact 
that your husband can’t give you a child must be devastating to him and 
some men in his shoes have happily accepted other men’s pregnancies to 
save face. </blockquote>
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<span style="color: #cc0000;">You obviously still love your husband and you need to seek urgent medical solutions to your childless state</span>.
 Lastly, you too have to decide if you love your husband enough to stay 
married to him without the prospect of a child. The longer you leave 
these soul-searching questions without seeking answers, the more 
frustrated you’ll become.</blockquote>
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<b>1. :I’m not ready for a relationship with you</b> Timing is crucial. 
Therefore you two do not always want the same things at the same time. 
Therefore, it is kind of understandable.<br />
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2. <b>I’m not physically attracted to you:</b> Bad hygiene 
constitutes a number of things: bad breath, bad body odor and unkempt 
dirty hair. If a girl has any of these characters, she is not going to 
be in a relationship for a long time.<br /><br /><b>3. You’re a drama queen:</b> every guy wants to da te a chilled out girl. Guys hate gossips and girls who bring up unnecessary drama<br /><br />
<b>4. You have bad manners:</b> If you’re late to your first date, it’s just 
rude! Good manners are a huge indicator of good character. Girls should 
be chi valrous too. Say “please” and “thank you,” tip well, have good 
dining etiquette, don’t swear like a trucker, etc. Prove that he can 
take you home to meet mom and dad.<br /><b> </b><br />
<b>5. There’s someone else:</b> There 
really is someone else. Most likely it’s an ex-girlfriend he can’t get 
over. If this is the case, be glad he dumped you! Don’t be second best 
to anyone. Do not be the other woman. That is not your place.<br /><br />
<b>6. We don’t have chemistry:</b> Saying you’re a bad ki sser means there’s no chemistry between you. You don’t turn him on.<br /><br />
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 You’re not marriage material:</b> Unlike women, who constantly debate 
possible baby names and wedding destinations, guys NEVER talk about the 
future. Therefore, if a guy uses the “future” as a reason for dumping 
you, he’s not messing around he is in a serious search for a woman who 
is a wife material.<br /><br />
<b>8. You’re too masculine:</b> well this does not apple
 to every guy but most guys prefer to believe that women are perfect, 
soft-skinned angels who never b urp or shave. If you have more hair on 
your upper lip than he does, there’s a serious issue on your hands<br /><br />
Quit the drama. Save the girl talk for girls’ night. Chill out. Put 
other’s needs before your own. Focus on school or work. Do things that 
are more substantial than partying; find your passion. BATHE. Don’t 
strive to look like a supermodel. Strive to look like the best version 
of yourself. Be a lady; grow up a little. Feel out if you’re s*xually 
compatible with your partner. Don’t try to create chemistry that’s just 
not there. If you do all of this and he still walks away, then you two 
simply want different things from one another at the same time. So, slow
 things down. Don’t push him into a relationship; lure him into one. Men
 are competitive by nature. Be the challenge. Be the chase. Win the 
race.

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Gerald Rogers is not a relationship expert, having separated his 
lovely wife after 16 years, he is regretting losing the woman he has 
loved and the marriage he could have saved, instead, his ego got the 
hold of him and he made this terrible mistake, he has this advice.<br />
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<b><em>“I wish I would have done different… 
After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, 
here’s the advice I wish I would have had.</em></b></div>
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<b><em>“Never stop courting. Never stop 
dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for granted. When you asked her to 
marry you, you promised to be that man that would OWN HER HEART and to 
fiercely protect it.</em></b></div>
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<b><em>“Protect your own heart. Just as you 
committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own 
with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but
 there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except 
for your wife. </em><br /><em>“Fall in love over and over again. You will 
constantly change. You’re not the same people you were when you got 
married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are 
today.</em></b></div>
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<b><em>“Never blame your wife if you get 
frustrated or angry at her, it is only because it is triggering 
something inside of YOU. They are YOUR emotions, and your 
responsibility.</em></b></div>
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<b><em>“Allow your woman to just be. When 
she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD 
HER and let her know it’s ok. Let her know that you hear her, and that 
she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always 
lean.</em></b></div>
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<b><em>“Never stop growing together… The 
stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and 
cool. Atrophy is the natural process when you stop working a muscle, 
just as it is if you stop working on your relationship. Find common 
goals, dreams and visions to work towards.</em></b></div>
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<b><em>“Don’t worry about money. Money is a 
game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. It never helps 
when teammates fight. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength 
to win.</em></b></div>
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<b><em>“Forgive immediately and focus on the
 future rather than carrying weight from the past. Don’t let your 
history hold you hostage. </em><br /><em>“In the end marriage isn’t about 
happily ever after. It’s about work. And a commitment to grow together 
and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can 
endure eternity. Through that work, the happiness will come.</em></b></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Who does 
not dream of becoming wealthy? If you ask people around you about their 
goal in life, many of them would say that it is being rich or wealthy. 
The reasons why people want to be wealthy vary from person to person.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Whatever 
your ulterior motive is, if you want to be wealthy, there are tried and 
tested money mistakes – yes, money mistakes, that you must avoid. Here, 
we bring to you a list of seven money mistakes that all of us should 
shun.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">1. Spending more than you earn:</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">It sounds 
like common sense but it is not. If this money mistake was simple enough
 to avoid, nobody would be in a financial crisis. This is a deadly habit
 and can ultimately lead to total financial distress. To make matters 
worse, we now have credit cards and other facilities that make us spend 
more than our financial means. To curb the urge to spend more than what 
you earn, maintain a budget and then track it closely.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">“Before you spend, earn.” ~–William A. Ward</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">2. Buying things you do not need:</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">All of us 
want to show-off our success but remember, wealthy people do not have to
 show if off. It shows itself but if you are on your path to being 
wealthy, don’t commit this money mistake. You should definitely spend on
 things of your interest but do not buy things solely for the purpose of
 impressing others, who are sometimes, even those people that you do not
 like at all.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">“If you buy things you don’t need, soon you will have to sell things you need.” ~ Warren Buffet</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">3. Not facing your financial situation</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">You might 
ask me how making this mistake is even possible but this is our defense 
mechanism. When we are obese and don’t want to do any effort to lose 
weight, we start avoiding the mirror.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Similarly, 
when we know that our money matters are in bad shape and we are not 
ready to make an effort to fix them, we avoid looking at the exact 
figures and that makes matters even worse! We should put the figures on a
 paper or on an excel sheet and look at them very carefully. That’s the 
first step towards dealing with your money troubles.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">4. Not having a plan</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Just like it
 is required for anything else, planning is an absolute must for your 
financial goals. Your financial goals can and must include your 
retirement plans, planning to pay your debt as soon as possible and 
creating investments no matter if your income is high or low.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">“Make sure you have a plan of your life in your hand, and that includes the financial plan and your mission.” ~ Manoj Arora</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">5. Relying on one income stream</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Many of us 
live depend on a single income stream and we are quite happy to get a 
pay cheque on a fixed date. Even those of us, who run their own business
 or are self-employed, usually rely on one channel of income. This can 
lead to an absolute disaster. No matter how steady or great that income 
is, if it runs dry due to any problem, it can create huge financial 
issues.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">6. Not trying to increase your income</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">If somebody asks you today to save more, do you automatically start thinking about expenses that you can cut down?</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Wrong approach.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">The better 
approach is to try to increase your income. Let’s assume that a person 
saves 25% of their income, if the income increases, savings too will 
automatically increase. However, always trying to cut down on your 
expenses is not a very fruitful and long-term strategy. If you leave too
 many things, it will make you frustrated and you will not be able to 
achieve your goal of being wealthy.</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">7. Prioritizing spending over saving</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">When we have
 a pressing need at present, we tend to feel that we should fulfill that
 need and savings can always be done later. This later won’t ever come 
because your needs never end. Research chemist Neil McCarthy started 
investing in the stock market at a very young age. Today he has a net 
worth of about $2.1 million. According to him what made all the 
difference is this:</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">“If you wait to save out of what’s left over from your salary, it’s not going to happen. Pay yourself first.”</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">If you want 
to be wealthy, there’s no easy route. Just focus on your goals and face 
the current problems in a realistic manner. Make sure you avoid these 
money mistakes on your path to being wealthy and success would be 
yours!!</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span>
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Written By LIANNE MARTHA MAIQUEZ LAROY</span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Culled from LifeH*cker</span> </div>

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<span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;">Often
 times, relationships do not work out due to some things a woman expects
 from her man but the man in the picture can not even point out what 
exactly the woman want. Yes, women are known to be very open and can be 
extremely talkative creatures in comparison with men, but you will be 
surprised that not only men have some things to hide, but women also 
have some secrets.<br /><b><br />Women Love Surprises:</b> No woman likes a 
boring ‘nothing-new-to-look-forward-to-man’, same way a man does not 
like a boring woman. The term ‘boring’ for a man does not mean same 
thing for a woman. Women like crazy surprises, surprises that can 
brighten up a moody face. Now, do not get it wrong, surprises do not 
necessarily mean spending money…helping out with the dishes while she 
cooks will sure gladden her heart.<br /><br />Making the bed while she tends
 the children to sleep will surely clear out all the day’s stress and 
get her willing to yield for any of your favorite s*xcapades…you know 
what I mean! Even if it is a gift, it necessarily does not have to be 
expensive. Be rest assured that when she realizes the fact that some 
effort has been taken to make her feel happy, you will be soon rewarded.<br /><b><br />Women Like To Be Part Of Every Decision-Making Process:</b>
 Do not be deceived by what anyone tells you about a man being the head 
and Lord of the house. Yes, women know that their men have naturally 
been saddled with the responsibility of making decisions for the home, 
but even when they know that fact, they still want to be a part. Even 
when a woman knows her husband still has the final say, she feels 
appreciated when her opinion or view is consulted by her husband 
concerning an issue.<br /><br />It goes a long way to suggest to the woman 
that she is just not a figure head but her opinion really matters! Dear 
men, boost the egos of your woman today, make them feel they are 
important in the house and not just the ‘kitchen manager’.<br /><br /><b>Women Want Men To Decode Their Various Body Languages: </b>Women
 are mostly known to have a sixth sense, especially if it concerns 
relationships. Women have been penned down to be very sensitive when a 
man is involved. No little detail can go down the drain when a 
relationship is question, that is why it is widely assumed that there is
 no way a woman will not know a friendship-relationship that will 
blossom into something more cordial.<br /><br />Women want to be in a 
particular home dress and have their man decode what they want or how 
they really want it or relatively how they are feeling at the moment 
without having to say a word. A woman desire a kind of relationship that
 just like the football field, the referee need not talk but will just 
blow his whistle and phew!..the footballer(s) know what he means.<br /><br /><b>Every Woman Want A Honest Man:</b>
 Even when dishonesty is the order of the day, a lot of women, if not 
all, want to be seen and attached to a man with a great repute. Every 
woman want to be happy to be linked with a man that everyone thinks has a
 great character with little or no flaw.<br /><br />Women want to be able to
 gist about their men with other women without the fear of being tackled
 or questioned about his behavior: To them, being a great man starts 
from having what some other women’s men do not have, which makes them 
shine more in the midst of their friends.<br /><br /><b>Sure there are other things women want:</b>
 things like telling them how much you love them very often, being there
 for them always and many more, with the list above, you have just read 
some of the innermost thoughts of every woman, although some of them 
might not own up to this</span></span></div>
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<b>SINGLE LADIES - 9 THINGS TO DO BEFORE YOU FINALLY MEET THE ONE</b><br />
While being single may not necessarily be a choice, spending your time 
wisely as an uncommitted 20+ years old lady is. Instead of plotting how 
to land a man or being envious of your friends who already have, take 
this time to explore some valuable lessons that every girl in her 20s 
should know so you’ll be ready when he finally arrives.<br />
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Number One:<br />
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<b>Being Happy</b><br />
in Your Own Company Being alone can be hard, but it’s important to not 
be dependent on the company of others to be happy. No one likes a 
clinger, and your future boyfriend will respect the fact that you have 
other interests besides him and are capable of having a good time all on
 your own. Read a good book, watch a new movie, pick up a hobby or go 
jogging. There are plenty of things you can do all by yourself to stay 
entertained.<br />
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Number Two:<br />
<b>Mastering the Art of Self-Soothing </b><br />
It’s great to have someone around to take care of you when you’re sick, 
hug you when you’re sad, or just listen to your problems. For the times 
you don’t have that, however, you should learn to master the art of self
 soothing. This is when a nice bottle of wine and a hot bubble bath 
comes in. It’s always good to be able to brush yourself off and keep 
going.<br />
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Number Three:<br />
<b>Being Happy for the Roman tic Successes of Others</b><br />
Green is not a pretty color on anyone, and the older you get, the harder it can be to be happy for the<br />
romantic successes of others when you’re still single. However, .being 
bitter or resentful is not going to attract the kind of energy and 
attention you want. Make a conscious effort to be happy for your friends
 who are getting married or pregnant, even if your roman tic life is in 
the dumps. Your time will come soon enough, and you will want your 
friends to be happy and celebrate with you when it does.<br />
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Number Four:<br />
<b>Not Living in the Past</b><br />
You can’t spend your single years thinking about the boyfriends you used
 to have or flowers you used to get on random Tuesday mornings. That 
part of your life is over; the sooner you put it behind<br />
you and accept that, the sooner you’ll be ready to move on to the next stage in your life.<br />
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Number Five:<br />
<b>Not Idealizing Your Ex</b><br />
We all have that one person who got away, and you probably think of him 
or her from time to time. Don’t — it’s useless. The chances of you two 
being legitimate soul mates are slim to none. The chances of you 
perfecting an image of someone in your mind because you’re lonely and 
crave familiarity? Much more probable.<br />
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Number Six:<br />
<b>Altering Your List Might Surprise You</b><br />
Being single is the perfect time to re-assess what it is you really want
 out of a relationship. Are you looking for someone to challenge you, 
make you laugh or live a healthy lifestyle with you? Be clear on what it
 is you’re looking for, and you might be surprised to find you’re more 
open to things that were previously deal breakers. You might realize the
 rich doctor type you’ve been chasing after hasn’t actually worked out 
for you, and you want to give the struggling writer a shot, instead. Be 
open to trying something new and it might surprise you.<br />
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Number Seven:<br />
<b>Recognizing the Value of Your Individualism</b><br />
There’s no better time than when you’re single to develop and appreciate
 your own train of thought. No one likes a yes man, and you want to be 
the kind of girl who can think meaningfully about issues and problems 
without having to resort to her boyfriend for his opinion first.<br />
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Number Eight: <b>Settling</b><br />
Sucks Yes, it’s tough to be single, but even worse than being single is 
being in bad company. If you’re doing everything else right, you should 
actually be having a pretty decent time finding out more about yourself 
as a person, spending time with friends and family and excelling in your
 career. Why would you want to ruin that by adding someone to your life 
who only half interests you? Don’t bother. At no point is settling ever a
 good idea.<br />
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Number Nine:<br />
<b>Make your own money!</b><br />
I repeat make your own money! please stop letting men bash you up and down because they think you can’t live without them.<br />
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<strong> According to the statistics, 97% of single women of 
marriageable age in Nigeria will do almost anything to tie the knot. How
 far can these desperate ladies go to fulfill their quest?</strong><br />
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<strong> 1. Stealing boyfriends from their friends</strong><br />

Everything is fair in war! It is a jungle here, so sometimes Nigerian
 women are hiding their boyfriends and even rename their names in 
cell-phones. To protect them from too active ‘friends’.<br />

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<strong>2. Changing their image</strong><br />

Women like to pretend. And the true self would be uncovered just 
after you say “I do”. Only after the marriage you will see what you 
really got.<br />

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<strong>3. Pregnancy</strong><br />

It is probably the oldest way to force man to propose. There are 
plenty of ways to do it and women know them all. Despite the fact that 
now guys are supporting their babies and baby mamas without the 
commitment, girls know how to manage it.<br />

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<strong>4. Praying</strong><br />

It sounds nice, but in fact it is fake and unreal. Because it can get
 a weird form. And the lady is obsessed with an idea of marriage, but 
not with believing in God.<br />

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<strong>5. Love magic</strong><br />

She can do some ‘magic’ to get you. Love potions are timeless methods.<br />

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<strong>6. Proposing by themselves</strong><br />

This can also happen. They just get closer with your family and 
friends. And you get into a trap. If your family loves her – they will 
insist you married her.<br />

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<strong>7. Asking parents to find her a husband</strong><br />

It is not so hard if you have a rich daddy. Then she will get a dozen
 of men who want to get some of his money. So it is a nice deal for all 
the sides.<br />
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<strong>8. Work out</strong><br />

Losing more than 20 kg, plastic surgery, buckets of makeup, learning 
several languages. These ladies can do everything to become a better one
 as a wife.<br />

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<strong>9. Moving into another town</strong><br />

New city has new perspectives! Why not to run from your fast into the bright new future?<br />

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<strong>10. Working in a church</strong><br />

If nothing works out why not to try this? A lot of unmarried men are 
going to church every week or even more often. Why not to use such a 
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<span style="font-size: medium;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><b>Appreciate his family:</b>
 Never make negative comments about mothers-in-law. Let him know his 
mother is as special to you just as she is to him. Show love to his 
siblings too.<br /><br /><b>Don’t be bossy:</b> When you make a man feel he is the head and not a schoolboy, who, you can intimidate, he will start thinking of marrying you.<br /><b><br />Don’t play hard-to-get:</b>
 What he wants is an honest straight-shooter. Though he might be 
intrigued by a hard-to-get lady in the beginning, as soon as he decides 
that he is interested in her, he believes you should be real.<br /><br /><b>Never attempt to change him:</b>
 Never attempt to change his friends and his hobbies either. Some women 
claim to love a man ‘just the way he is’ but little by little, they want
 to change everything about him. First, it’s his wardrobe, then; it’s 
his taste in music.<br /><br /><b>You are not jealous:</b> Learn to trust. A
 jealous woman is on edge always because she is very distrusting. Just 
because you have been hurt in the past, don’t be on guard for anything 
that looks or feels wrong. When a man first meets such a woman, he wants
 to reassure her that he is nothing like that guy in her past.<br /><br /><b>You are not clingy:</b>
 Don’t be too difficult for a man to date, let alone marry. At first, he
 is flattered that you are so in love with him and wants to be around 
him always; but very quickly, he feels overwhelmed and suffocated by 
you. As a woman, you must have something going on in your own life so 
that you are not always clinging to him.<br /><br /><b>Don’t compare him with your father:</b>
 Not all men like to be viewed as a father figure. Initially, he might 
like how you seek his approval and answers to all of your questions, but
 soon, he realizes that he wants to be intimate with a real woman.<br /><br /><b>Not tied to your mother’s apron string:</b>
 A man can propose to you when he realizes you don’t call on your mother
 always to make a decision on your affair with him. He gets scared the 
more when you cannot do without getting her opinion on everything.<br /><br /><b>You don’t gossip:</b>
 Most guys are turned off when you always love to gossip and talk about 
other people. Not only that, when you love to hear things about other 
people as well.<br /><b><br />Stop undue comparison:</b> A lady, who is 
constantly talking about what other people do and what they have, places
 a lot of undue pressure on her man. Be yourself, live your size per 
time and shun pretences.</span></span> 
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Actress, 
Dayo Amusa, with her words of wisdom which she uses to appeal to her 
fans emotion of living a good life and to know the essence of existence.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">This time, 
she tried to educate the female folks that no matter what they do, they 
should always remember that they are the ones in charge of the home and 
without them, things will not go right.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">“The angel 
of the Family is Woman. Mother, wife, or sister, Woman is the caress of 
life, the soothing sweetness of affection shed over its toils, a 
reflection for the individual of the loving providence which watches 
over Humanity.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">In her there
 is treasure enough of consoling tenderness to allay every pain. 
Moreover for every one of us she is the initiator of the future. The 
mother's first kiss teaches the child love; the first holy kiss of the 
woman he loves teaches man hope and faith in life; and love and faith 
create a desire for perfection and the power of reaching towards it step
 by step; create the future, in short, of which the living symbol is the
 child, link between us and the generations to come. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Through her the Family, with its divine mystery of reproduction, points to Eternity #Toy Not With Us.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Women don't 
forget that everything that is born of her is planted in her #We Are 
Strong Nature has given women so much power. We Make The Home! We Lead 
The Race!! We Rule The World!!! Yes WOMEN does.”</span></div>
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<b>For every action humans exhibit, there is always a cause  beneath. Consequently, this article looks at various reasons why men  fall out of love in a relationship they initially cherished.</b><br />
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NOT MEETING HIS EMOTIONAL NEEDS<br />
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It's a given that men are likewise emotionally needy. They also want to  be showered with deluge of love the same manner in which they give.  Ditto with compliments, care, calls, etc. And depriving them of  virtually all these is a sure way of shifting their attention elsewhere.  Truth is, not every man will go rent a mega phone and a loud speaker to  announce that he wants to be loved too- except he has some mental  challenges.<br />
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YOU DON'T GET ALONG WITH HIS MUM/FAMILY MEMBERS<br />
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Experienced house wives would tell you that bearing any ill will for  one's mother-in-law is a quick recipe for marital frustration and  possible separation. You'd agree with me that mums always have influence  on men and not being on good terms with them means you leave the men in  an awkward dilemma of making a choice between you and them. And we all  know what the choice would be, don't we?<br />
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WHEN ATTRACTION FADES<br />
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No matter how blindly in love a couple could be, a time would come when  the intensity of the attraction would subside. Now, here is a stage to  exercise caution. Since you both have somewhat recovered your  'eyesight', flaws of the other partner becomes visible. And if yours is  to constantly pick quarrels with your man like you under the influence  some steroids, then you might as well sooner or later forfeit your  prince charming.<br />
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UNFAITHFULNESS<br />
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If there is anything that could make a grown man be urgently admitted to  the hospital like he was suffering from lassa fever or become sober  like he had been severely starved for a month, then it is a heartbreak  gotten from his spouse's s*xual unfaithfulness. More often than not, the  trust, love and connection consciously or unconsciously diminishes.<br />
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YOU ARE EXTREMELY EXPENSIVE TO MAINTAIN<br />
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A man that is struggling to cope with the financial and material demands  of his partner might eventually fall out of love to save his finances  from being sentenced to life imprisonment. No matter how much the love  of a man is, it doesn't take more than an expensive partner to wake him  up from that daydream. And trust me, he'll wake up- they always do-  however sweet it is.<br />
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Do you agree with these, are there any more points you would like to add? Feel free to share your thoughts below.<br />
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<b><i><span class="c1">- by Kalejaye Abayomi</span></i></b></div>

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