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Nicki Minaj shares new LAHOT photos of herself..., EYE CANDY

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Why Do Mén Chat? Here Is The Nkéd Truth

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Laura, 34, who had been through a terrible divorce a while back and 
Holly, 28, who broke up with her fiancé because she found him in bed 
with his secretary, get up close and personal with us to share their 
thoughts and experiences to explain why men cheat. We were the ones 
asking questions while they were replying.

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Do men cheat because of s*x?</h4>
“S*x is probably the major cause for all men to cheat”, said Laura. 
Holly was quick to point out, “It is not always the case that men don’t 
get great s*x at home. I know it sounds harsh, but men sometimes find it
 hard to stay faithful”. Friends, better double check on this one in 
your own life.<br />
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Do men cheat because of lack of respect?</h4>
“Jonathan, my best friend’s partner cheated on her for 6 months 
before she found out. He said she did not give him respect which made 
him go astray”, said Holly. “This was probably the only genuine reason a
 man could give to the question, why do men cheat. Genuine, but not good
 enough”, said Laura. “He could always have talked it out. I’m not sure 
if lack of respect is the justification for cheating”, she added.<br />
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Do men cheat because of monotony?</h4>
“Mike always told me that his life was getting monotonous day by day.
 He would come home from work and complain that every day was the same. I
 feel that this frustration drove him to cheat”, said Laura. We could 
see the anger on Laura’s face and could sure understand what she meant 
when she said, “Life is tough and can sometimes get monotonous. That 
does answer the question ‘why do mean cheat’, does it?”, she asked.<br />
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Do men cheat because of long distance relationships?</h4>
We were hoping Holly would answer this question and tell us what it 
has got to do with long distance relationships, because she was in one 
herself. She did not disappoint us and gave us some great insight. “My 
ex and I were living in different cities for about 2 years. I got 
suspicious when he started avoiding my calls and started using frequent 
excuses and reasons to avoid my calls. I decided to travel to Atlanta 
where he was based. I crashed into his apartment only to find him with 
his secretary”, said Holly. “My case is a typical answer to our 
question. I think that the distance caused my ex to cheat”, she said, 
disappointed.<br />
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Do men cheat because they are inherently unfaithful?</h4>
“Absolutely not”, said Holly. We all bump into charming men who may 
flirt a bit with women but stay in their limits. Men who can stay 
committed in the most vulnerable of situations are hard to find, but 
they do exist”, she added. This brings us to the conclusion that men 
aren’t inherently unfaithful and hence, it can’t be the answer to our 
question.<br />
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Do men cheat because of chauvinism?</h4>
“I think that the idea of chauvinism and male dominance has got a lot
 to do with unwrapping the answers to our question”, pondered Laura. 
Holly agreed and said, “Male chauvinism can sometimes make a man think 
that that he can get away with everything, including cheating on his 
partner. No wonder we see many male political leaders, corporate biggies
 and big celebrity names caught up in cheating scandals”.</div>
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Why Do Mén Ch*at? Here Is The N*kéd Truth

Laura, 34, who had been through a terrible divorce a while back and Holly, 28, who broke up with her fiancé because she found him in bed...

Sad Moment: Catholic Priest in Germany Sentenced to 6 Years in Prison Over Child Abuse [Photos]

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</span> <span style="line-height: 18.2000007629395px;">A Catholic priest
 in the German town of Krefeld has been sentenced to six years in prison
 on 25 counts of child abuse, the District Court said on Friday.</span></span><br />
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</span> <span style="line-height: 18.2000007629395px;">The 56-year-old 
priest, whose name was withheld due to privacy considerations, $exually 
abused his godson and the boy’s brother on dozens of occasions, with the
 court finding proof for 25 of those.</span></span><br />
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Sad Moment: Catholic Priest in Germany Sentenced to 6 Years in Prison Over Child Abuse [Photos]

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Tonto Dikeh call Ini Edo a “Nollywood Desperate Old Cargo” (Do You Agree?)

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</span> <span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">That
 Nollywood Tonto Dikeh is controversial is no news,what is news is her 
latest jab directed at someone considered to be fellow Nollywood 
actress, Ini Edo. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Tonto
 Dikeh who is nominated for future awards(Best actress) shocked fans 
when she posted a tweet referring to a fellow Future Award Nominee as a 
“Desperate Nollywood old cargo”.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"> </span><span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">It didn’t 
take a soothsayer for people to decipher what she meant considering that
 Ini Edo was accused by Rita Dominic and Stella Dimoko of manipulating 
her online votes for the Arik Air best actress award in Nov 2011. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">Tonto
 Dikeh is nominated alongside Ini Edo, OC Ukeje, Ivie Okujaye, Gideon 
Okeke, Ramman Hassan, Kabirah Mojisola Kafidipe, and Lala Akindoju</span></div>

Tonto Dikeh call Ini Edo a “Nollywood Desperate Old Cargo” (Do You Agree?)

That Nollywood Tonto Dikeh is controversial is no news,what is news is her latest jab directed at someone considered to be fell...

50cent doing that thing with this girl in a club

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 has been concentrating on business recently, and he is not only 
competing with Dre by releasing his own "SMSAudio" earphones ,he has now
 gone into vodka just like Diddy is known for Ciroc.So, to push his own 
brand called Effen Vodka, he posted the photo above with Diddy dancing 
with a buxom babe and tagged it "I'm Effen up right now "He then 
captioned the photo "</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">'<i>LMAO GOOD MORNING PEOPLE #SMSAUDIO'</i></span></blockquote>
<span style="font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;"><span style="background-color: #fdf9fb;"><span style="line-height: 19.6000003814697px;">Followers
 then slammed him for insinuating those who drink Diddy's ciroc end up 
with larger women..After being overwhelmed with insults, he deleted the 
post..</span></span><br style="background-color: #fdf9fb; line-height: 19.6000003814697px;" /><span style="background-color: #fdf9fb; line-height: 19.6000003814697px;">Piddy didn't respond but posted a cryptic note ..like a big boy..lol Below</span></span><br />
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50cent doing that thing with this girl in a club

50cent has been concentrating on business recently, and he is not only competing with Dre by releasing his own "SMSAudio" ear...

BUSTED!!! John Dumelo And Christabel Ekeh Caught Doing Bad Thing

BUSTED!!! John Dumelo And Christabel Ekeh Caught Doing Bad Thing

Obasanjo is my best friend and my mugu-Eedris Abdulkareem

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 Abdulkareem has revealed he is strongly behind president Jonathan's 
second term bid and wants Buhari to pave way for the youth.He also 
opened up on his relationship with former president Obasanjo.Excerpts 
from his</span></div>
<a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="more"></a> new interview with Encomium<br />
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<b style="background-color: #fdf9fb; font-family: Georgia, Utopia, 'Palatino Linotype', Palatino, serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 19.6000003814697px; text-align: left;">What’s your current relationship with former President, Olusegun Obasanjo?</b><br />
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Obasanjo is <span class="IL_AD" id="IL_AD5" style="background-attachment: scroll !important; background-clip: initial !important; background-color: transparent !important; background-image: none !important; background-origin: initial !important; background-position: 0% 50%; background-repeat: repeat !important; background-size: initial !important; border-bottom-color: rgb(27, 142, 222) !important; border-bottom-style: solid !important; border-bottom-width: 1px !important; color: rgb(27, 142, 222) !important; cursor: pointer !important; display: inline !important; float: none !important; padding: 0px 0px 1px !important; position: static; text-decoration: underline !important;">my best friend</span> and my mugu.</blockquote>
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What I’m saying is that when I came back from raising the Olympic touch,
 God inspired me to sing Nigeria JagaJaga. Luckily for me, the then 
president (Obasanjo) came on a national television, insulted my family 
and all sorts. Some people said the President might kill me, but I told 
them, “I’m not scared of anybody. I’m a muslim, I fear no one except 
Allah. I read my Quran.” So, I was happy that Obasanjo replied because 
his response brought food to my table. He made a superstar and elevated 
me above all my colleagues with his reactions to my song. That’s why I 
said he’s my mugu.</blockquote>
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First, everybody has a choice, but for me, Jonathan is my choice. For 
goodness sake, Buhari has ruled us before. He was the governor of North 
Eastern State (presently Yobe and Borno). He was also the Minister of 
Petroleum and Mineral Resources when he was 32. He was also Chairman of 
NNPC at 36, and at 41, he became the head of state. What else does he 
want? We are tired of him. We want to move on. We want a young man like 
Jonathan. To me, the whole Boko Haram saga was<span class="IL_AD" id="IL_AD9" style="background-attachment: scroll !important; background-clip: initial !important; background-color: transparent !important; background-image: none !important; background-origin: initial !important; background-position: 0% 50%; background-repeat: repeat !important; background-size: initial !important; border-bottom-color: rgb(27, 142, 222) !important; border-bottom-style: solid !important; border-bottom-width: 1px !important; color: rgb(27, 142, 222) !important; cursor: pointer !important; display: inline !important; float: none !important; padding: 0px 0px 1px !important; position: static; text-decoration: underline !important;">created</span> by
 some people to humiliate Jonathan so as to make him look like a fool. 
This propaganda doesn’t work anywhere. It’s only Jonathan that can save 
Nigeria if allowed for the second time.</blockquote>
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Collected? Do I need to collect money before showing support <span class="IL_AD" id="IL_AD8" style="background-attachment: scroll !important; background-clip: initial !important; background-color: transparent !important; background-image: none !important; background-origin: initial !important; background-position: 0% 50%; background-repeat: repeat !important; background-size: initial !important; border-bottom-color: rgb(27, 142, 222) !important; border-bottom-style: solid !important; border-bottom-width: 1px !important; color: rgb(27, 142, 222) !important; cursor: pointer !important; display: inline !important; float: none !important; padding: 0px 0px 1px !important; position: static; text-decoration: underline !important;">for president</span> that
 meant good for this country? I didn’t collect any money, I have not 
even met the president. If I’m opportuned to meet him, I have one <span class="IL_AD" id="IL_AD3" style="background-attachment: scroll !important; background-clip: initial !important; background-color: transparent !important; background-image: none !important; background-origin: initial !important; background-position: 0% 50%; background-repeat: repeat !important; background-size: initial !important; border-bottom-color: rgb(27, 142, 222) !important; border-bottom-style: solid !important; border-bottom-width: 1px !important; color: rgb(27, 142, 222) !important; cursor: pointer !important; display: inline !important; float: none !important; padding: 0px 0px 1px !important; position: static; text-decoration: underline !important;">question</span> to ask him, “Why did you say you don’t want to jail anybody, including the corrupt politicians?</blockquote>
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Obasanjo is my best friend and my mugu-Eedris Abdulkareem

Eedris Abdulkareem has revealed he is strongly behind president Jonathan's second term bid and wants Buhari to pave way for th...

2015 Elections: Why APC May Lose Lagos State

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<b>by Ola Idowu</b><br />
The cracks may look papered and the All Progressive Congress (APC) in 
Lagos after its primaries across the state would believe the party is 
still united and should coast to victory in the elections in 2015, but 
they may wake up and find the opposition Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) 
in Alausa and to be candid I wouldn’t be surprised one bit.<br />
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Let me admit that some of the candidates in APC whose political 
ambitions were stonewalled are known to me in one form or the other, but
 my analysis and opinion here are totally rigorous and devoid of 
sentiments or malice. Wole Soyinka just described President Goodluck 
Jonathan as the biblical Nebuchadnezzar, and while I certainly agree 
with him, I would like to say<br />

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we have a Nebuchadnezzar and Emperor Nero rolled into one in Lagos state
 and that man unfortunately is APC chieftain Bola Tinubu.<br />
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Nebuchadnezzar in the sense that he has allowed the spirit of grand 
delusion take over him completely which like the biblical Aramean 
(present day Syria) King saw him become delusional and began to boast of
 all his achievements and conquests to the extent of turning himself 
into a god to be worshipped by the people. God Almighty made him fully 
insane, losing all of his sanity, dethroned him for seven years before 
restoring him back to the throne and he then learnt to praise the true 
God. Emperor Nero on his part is more associated with the term “fiddling
 while Rome was burning”, but his major problem was his tyranny and 
arrogance towards the people he ruled which led to disobedience and wars
 against him. The same arrogance you can find on the part of Tinubu and 
those within his inner circle still enjoying his political clout.<br />
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Like Nebuchadnezzar, I wouldn’t be shocked if PDP takes over Lagos state
 at least for the next eight years starting from 2015 so as to humble 
Tinubu, and make him realise whatever he has become in Lagos and to the 
Yoruba people is not by any act of perfection of his but just by the 
mercies of God. Tomorrow APC would all things being equal “select” its 
gubernatorial candidate and pointers are that the anointed candidate by 
godfather Tinubu, Akinwunmi Ambode would be selected. I say selected 
because judging from the outcome of the primaries for the state House of
 Assembly, preferred candidates from the Tinubu camp scored over 95% of 
the votes in their constituencies in some cases 100% in what was 
supposed to be open and fair primaries, thus its clear Ambode would be 
selected on Thursday December 4th with a large proportion of the votes 
at the primaries.<br />
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The situation report from all the different constituencies where the 
House of Assembly primaries were held, was that party delegates were 
instructed to vote in full for any candidate anointed by Tinubu. They 
were simply told at the election venues that the godfather had asked 
them all to vote for just one person. It’s the same procedure to be 
adopted for Ambode’s victory and some candidates vying, may have zero 
votes put behind their names if they don’t step down before Thursday.<br />
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You wonder why should Lagos state with all the talk of progressivism be 
run that way? What is the essence of attending the US Democratic party’s
 convention and not bringing back any ideas from there? Did Tinubu just 
attend to have a photo-op and boost his own political status or was he 
there to learn one or two new things to help move his own party forward?
 You had the better part of a year for succession planning even if you 
wanted to have some level of control in the party as a leader in it, 
together with ‘Tunde Fashola why didn’t you take the most part of the 
year to plan the race for his successor? Why all the last minute rush 
and deception that smacks of the archaic politics still being played in 
Lagos state?<br />
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The APC (all through its metamorphosis in Lagos state) has become a 
victim of its own success in the last 16 years and you shouldn’t be 
shocked so many people want to share in that success, after-all they all
 worked for it too. For one man to believe he alone is the architect of 
the whole success would be stretching it to the level of grand delusion 
and just like Nebuchadnezzar he would soon be dethroned by God just so 
he can learn who is the Almighty. In 2007 when Action Congress was not 
even yet as successful as this, we had lots of candidates who wanted to 
succeed Tinubu, and luckily I’m sure through divine guidance a man 
foretold in Fashola was given the ticket and he hasn’t disappointed.<br />
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His performance over the last eight years (with plenty of work yet to be
 done in mass populated areas) has further made the party now called APC
 a victim of its own success and so many more candidates want to succeed
 him. In an age where even in the United Kingdom, century old parties 
like the Conservatives are seeing members crying out for open primaries 
rather than the age long style of selection of candidates that only 
ensures the elites and private school tutored boys get into government, 
Lagos state under Tinubu is preserving the Conservative style where only
 his own cronies. family members, relatives and children whose fathers 
are known get into position in the state yet we call ourselves 
progressives, democrats or forward thinking.<br />
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What does it cost Tinubu and APC in Lagos state to organise a proper 
primary and state convention like its done in countries where he has 
visited and been seen photographed in their own democratic conventions?<br />
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Its even worse when you perceive that the same Tinubu looks to be a 
misogynist and finds it hard to give women opportunities except they are
 his close family members and relatives. In 1999, he found it hard to 
work with Kofo Akerele-Bucknor and they parted ways in 2002. Maybe you 
did blame it on the lady and excuse Tinubu, but he went on to have the 
same problem with another deputy this time a male. Compare it with 
Fashola who had Sarah Sosan as his deputy from 2007 and they had a 
brilliant working relationship. The powers that be which of course is 
Tinubu decided without explanation that Sosan had to be dropped in 2011 
and brought another female in Orelope-Adefulire and yet Fashola had a no
 issues working with her till date. It leaves one wondering if truly 
Tinubu isn’t the problem considering he couldn’t work with a female 
deputy and if he isn’t a misogynist – someone who finds it hard to trust
 women and their abilities except in his case they are his family 
members or relations. -<br />
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Take a look at the House of Assembly primaries and you find lots of 
women either not returning as candidates for the party or they were not 
given a chance at all. In Oshodi-Isolo 2 constituency the female 
candidate there a current state legislator was routed by a fresher Ladi 
Ajomale, son of the APC state chairman Henry Ajomale. In Amuwo-Odofin 2 
constituency, the female candidate a state legislator was also defeated 
by a Tinubu favoured candidate. In Ikeja 1 constituency Kenny Saint 
Brown (KSB, popular musician and younger sister to Kenny Ogungbe) was 
not even given much of a chance as she lost by a wide margin to another 
fresher just like her Jimi Mohammed, son of Lai Mohammed the APC 
National Publicity secretary.<br />
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Though KSB is quite new to the political scene one would have thought 
been a woman (a sector of our society and politics that can be classed 
as vulnerable people) she should have been given more support and help 
to achieve her dreams. You may say its politics and the majority wins 
but compare it with another popular face Nollywood actor, Desmond Elliot
 totally new to politics but defeating an incumbent Kabiru Lawal to win 
in Surulere Constituency 1 and then you now the APC is possibly a party 
led by misogynists. Take a look also at Ikeja Constituency 2, the only 
female candidate in that constituency out of several male contenders was
 first disqualified by the APC state screening committee citing the fact
 that she has no political experience. A candidate who has been with the
 party since 1999 under Alliance for Democracy (AD) attended several 
meetings of Bola Ahmed Tinubu Campaign Organisation (BATCO) those days 
when its head office was at Aromirein Ikeja.<br />
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A candidate who has held political positions within the Local Government
 (Ikeja LG/Ojodu LCDA) and you say such person has no political 
experience. In any case even when the folly was rectified and they went 
to primaries, the godfather brought a certain Damola Kasumu with zero 
political experience, who is a nephew to Tinubu to be declared the 
winner. The female candidate was given no chance, the rest of the 
candidates too no chance in hell just because the godfather wants to 
compensate his nephew.<br />
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The Kasumu according to reports widely written about him in the Nigerian
 press is said to be the surviving child of the late Abibatu Mogaji (a 
woman Tinubu related to as his mother) but his known to be a drunkard 
with slurred speech who mismanaged the businesses he inherited from his 
late mother and had ran into hard times. While all that is none of my 
business really, but the emerging trend is that in Lagos state there is 
now a glass-ceiling on people’s political ambitions and only Tinubu can 
decide what you become in the state. I heard Fashola some months back 
talking about if having to choose between freedom and development he did
 choose freedom any day.<br />
<br />
The likes of Musiliu Obanikoro who defected from the AD to PDP despite 
the help he got from Tinubu, as well as Jimi Agbaje who has never teamed
 up with the so called progressives may be right after all. What’s the 
point calling yourself a progressive and you have to be under one man’s 
group thinking? You not allowed to make your own decisions, pursue your 
own dreams whether you fail or win, neither are you able to stand out 
and criticise the the man if he is failing.<br />
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<b><i>Ola’ Idowu is a management consultant and researcher. He writes in from the UK via frenchcoast2@gmail.com</i></b></div>

2015 Elections: Why APC May Lose Lagos State

by Ola Idowu The cracks may look papered and the All Progressive Congress (APC) in Lagos after its primaries across the state ...

Beautiful Miss K Gets Rough; Opens Up On Herself

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<b>Background... </b><br />
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My name is Karina Theresa but I prefer to be called Miss K. It’s my 
stage name and it’s easier to pronounce. My mother is a Spaniard and my 
father is from the Caribbean. I was born in France but I live in the 
United Kingdom.<br />
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<b>Men...</b><br />
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For now, I am not seeing anybody. I am in a relationship with myself. I 
work hard, focus on my creative visions and projects so I can succeed. 
Would I like to be in a relationship? Yes, if the right man comes my way<br />
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<b>Scandals...</b><br />
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There were rumours that I had some form of cosmetic surgery done on my 
body. The rumours were brought about by some pictures I took. My body is
 real. I have never visited a plastic surgeon but I am not against it. I
 can’t tell what would happen when I turn 50. I might decide to have 
some work done on my body. God has been good to me and shaped me like a 
real mermaid. I have the right curves at the right places.<br />
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<b>Silhouette...</b><br />
I am fearfully and wonderfully made by God just like any other person. 
He granted me these curves and I am not going to let it waste. I believe
 in empowering women and girls. I want them to believe in their 
abilities and take control of their lives. Beauty does not lie in being 
curvaceous and it will only take you where your character can keep you. 
You need to be confident to get on in life. I tell people they can look 
good in anything, if they really want to. I want to succeed in life and 
achieve great things. I am a confident woman and I like to step out of 
my comfort zone because it encourages me to try new things.<br />
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<b>Achievements...</b><br />
I was the first Afro-Caribbean personality to feature in an MTN 
campaign. I featured prominently on their billboard adverts in 2009. I 
considered that to be a giant stride in my career. The experience 
boosted my confidence because such opportunities are rare.<br />
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For me, it has never been about money but achieving something new and interesting.</div>
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<b>Music...</b><br />
I fell in love with music at a young age. My style of music is R ‘n’ B, 
influenced by the hip hop sounds of America and Caribbean beats of the 
West Indies.<br />
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<b>Marriage...</b><br />
Marriage is a sacred institution. You have to careful and have a 
discerning mind before attempting marriage. If it’s not properly 
considered, it can have disastrous effects on the coupled. One day, Mr. 
Right will walk me down the aisle and I will have children. I know I 
will have a big wedding.<br />
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Background... My name is Karina Theresa but I prefer to be called Miss K. It’s my stage name and it’s easier to pronounce. ...

Jonathan: The Tale Of A Troublesome President

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Once upon a time there was a pupil named Jonathan. Jonathan was quite a 
lucky chap and witty one too. When his luck failed him, he made up a 
clever tale. Once he said he had no shoes; he also took advantage by 
pretending he had no clues. But he was just lazy and loved too much 
enjoyment.<br />
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Jonathan was a truant. He was always late to his classes and never did 
his homework. While the other students studied, he surrounded himself 
with ladies. Fascinated by his babes and knocked out by his enjoyment, 
Jonathan’s school attendance was merely a ruse.<br />
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Jonathan was a bad boy. He was the type of student that always scaled 
the fence. He would be seen in the marketplace, hanging around with 
other bad boys. Jonathan loved the bad boys. He would defend them, 
protect them, and surround himself with them...<br />
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When they got in trouble and were grounded, he found ways to bail them 
out. The hooligans loved him as he loved them. He even called them his 
“siblings,” and real family. He was a thug and never ashamed of it.<br />
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Jonathan was a bully. After one of his cunning tales got him appointed 
as the class president, he raided the class, taking everyone’s shoes 
then made a shoe store. He told the class he had transformed their 
lives. “Look at that! Now you have a shoe store,” Jonathan beamed.<br />
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Jonathan had a friend named Bafarawa. Bafarawa was a true friend. When 
the classmates wanted to pounce on Jonathan, Bafarawa said “he is still 
learning.”<br />
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<b>Then one day it was time for the final exam</b>.<br />
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Jonathan was not ready. He had used the candle only for notorious deeds.
 He had burned the lamp oil only to play dice. Jonathan had never opened
 a textbook. He had never taken notes nor done any assignments. He 
didn’t know his teachers names, and had no idea what the subjects were.<br />
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Jonathan planned to cheat, but he wasn’t sure he would pass. Jonathan 
was sweating. He was perplexed. He couldn’t see his good luck or 
wittiness getting him out of this one. He raided the rooms of smart 
students and carted away their computers and study materials, but that 
didn’t help.<br />
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As Jonathan got more and more desperate, he tried to bring all his 
classmates down so he could pass by being above the curve, but no one 
was listening. Not just the class, or the school but the entire 
community now knew Jonathan. They were all tired of his pranks.<br />
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Jonathan figured he will have to study, so he tried his best to do a 
crash course. He invited gangsters from the neighboring towns to help 
him out, but that got him nowhere. He borrowed money and bought the best
 study tools, but it was just too late. He even bought printers to print
 his homework. The teacher said it was neat, but you passed your 
deadline.<br />
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Finally when all else failed, Jonathan figured the only way will be to get the exam postponed so he can get time to prepare.<br />
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<b>Now the election has been postponed through massive pressure...</b><br />
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Questions:<br />
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<li>Do you think Jonathan will be successful in getting the exams postponed?</li>
<li>Do you think Jonathan can pass the exam?</li>
<li>What do you think his classmates, teachers and the community will do to Jonathan as he plays his last ‘witty’ games?</li>
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<b>by Dr. Peregrino Brimah</b><br />
http://ENDS.ng [Every Nigerian Do Something]<br />
Email: drbrimah@ends.ng Twitter: @EveryNigerian</div>
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Jonathan: The Tale Of A Troublesome President

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<b>We Must Remain Calm But Resolute</b><br />
Following the decision by the Independent National Electoral Commission 
(INEC) to postpone the 2015 general elections by six weeks, I wish to 
appeal for utmost restraint and calm by all Nigerians, especially the 
teeming supporters of our great party, the All Progressives Congress 
(APC).<br />
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This postponement, which comes on the heels of  the bogey of the 
National Security Adviser that half of the registered voters were being 
disenfranchised was exposed as a crude and fraudulent attempt to subvert
 the electoral process. The PDP administration has now engineered a 
postponement using the threat that security will not be guaranteed 
across the length and breadth  of Nigeria because of military engagement
 in some states in the North East.  It  is important to note that 
although INEC acted within its constitutional powers, it is clear that 
it has been boxed into a situation where it has had to bow to pressure.<br />
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Thus, the independence of INEC has been gravely compromised.<br />
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As a Nigerian and a presidential candidate in the elections, I share in 
the disappointment and frustration of this decision. This postponement 
coming a week to the first election has raised so many questions, many 
of which shall be asked in the days ahead. However, we must not allow 
ourselves to be tempted into taking actions that could further endanger 
the democratic process.  <br />
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Our country is going through a difficult time in the hands of 
terrorists. Any act of violence can only complicate the security 
challenges in the country and provide further justification to those who
 would want to exploit every situation to frustrate the democratic 
process in the face of certain defeat at the polls.<br />
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If anything, this postponement should strengthen our resolve and 
commitment to rescue our country from the current economic and social 
collapse from this desperate band. Our desire for change must surpass 
their desperation to hold on to power at all cost.  We are clearly 
dealing with people who feel they can get away with placing their 
personal interest over those of our nation and its citizens. What is at 
stake is the very survival of our country. We must not allow this 
temporary delay to abort this great opportunity.   While I share the 
pains and frustrations of my fellow citizens over this development, my 
deep faith in the democratic process assures me that this country, with 
your support, will overcome.<br />
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We must remain resolute and rise above all provocations. We must 
continue to trust in the entire democratic process and in INEC, which 
has been brought under so much pressure in the last few days. Our trust 
can only serve to encourage the electoral body to remain steadfast and 
remain committed to the rule of law.  I wish to state strongly that our 
 party will not tolerate any further interference with the electoral 
process. The rescheduled elections of March 28th and April 11th, 2015 
must be sacrosanct.<br />
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Nigeria is definitely greater than any of us, and much more important 
than our individual ambitions. Before us there was Nigeria, and long 
after we are gone there will still be Nigeria. Let  us continue to do 
our part to make it thegreat  country that it should be. We must rescue 
our dear country. God  being on our side, we shall salvage Nigeria 
together.<br />
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God Bless Nigeria! <br />
<br />
<b>Gen. Muhammadu Buhari, GCFR</b><br />
Presidential Candidate of the All Progressives Party, APC.</div>
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I Received A Slap for Exposing Stealing – Emir Sanusi Lamido

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The emir of Kano, His Royal Highness, Muhammad Sanusi II, has revealed 
that he was slapped for exposing stealing when he discovered that a 
matron at his school, Saint Ann Primary School, has been stealing from 
his school box and confronted her.<br />
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He said his boldness to confront her earned him a slap from the angry matron.<br />
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Emir Sanusi stated this on Sunday in Kano. He recalled his past 
experiences most especially at his alma mata, Saint Ann School, and 
disclosed that he was about seven or eight years old when he and his 
colleagues discovered that their biscuits and other provisions 
repeatedly kept on missing. He added that he and his colleagues came to 
the conclusion that the matron who had access to their belongings must 
be stealing from them.<br />
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Sanusi said that he had one day discovered that his box was emptied by unknown person and pledged to confront the school matron.<br />
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Emir Sanusi recalled that he led the first demonstration at the age of seven at Saint Ann, School, Kaduna, Kaduna State.<br />
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According to him, the school was initially a girls only school until it 
incorporated boys. The school authority permitted the boys students to 
use the school dormitory to keep their belongings and a matron was 
appointed to supervise and took care of the boys’ boxes.<br />
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Emir Sanusi described himself as the person who always talks about missing items.<br />
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He said that it has been difficult for him or any other person to 
express the enormity of what Allah has done for him. It would be 
recalled that since he became emir of Kano, Sanusi had made it clear 
that the position comes from God.<br />
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According to him, it is not because one is clever or connected, that he 
is favoured with appointment but at the prerogative of the Creator to 
give to whoever He so wishes.<br />
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On the question of his knowledge of the Bible, Sanusi II responded that 
he was the best in Bible Knowledge and had scored a distinction in Bible
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I Received A Slap for Exposing Stealing – Emir Sanusi Lamido

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General Sam Momah (retd), a former member of the Armed Forces 
Provisional Ruling Council and Minister of Science and Technology, holds
 a PhD in Strategic Studies. He once served as a Principal Staff Officer
 to General Muhammadu Buhari, (retd) the presidential candidate of the 
APC.<br />
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In this interview with Vanguard, he dismisses the furore over Buhari’s 
certificate as a dent on Nigeria and not the former head of state. 
Excerpts:<br />
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<b>How do you rate the two major contenders in the forthcoming presidential elections?</b><br />
Jonathan has tried his best. I doff my hat for him for holding the 
Constitutional Conference; he has given the women 35% Affirmative Action
 on gender equality and has tried to tinker with agriculture, the 
cassava bread issue, which has now virtually died and now he is trying 
to bring up a rice issue.<br />
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I know that he voted about 100 billion Naira to revive the textile 
industry and all that. Indeed, I can say that he has tried his best for 
Nigeria.<br />
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But the point is that when you have a president who says that stealing 
is not corruption and treats corruption with kids gloves, then most of 
that money released, just disappears. There is no system that will 
progress if there is no accountability. Jonathan has tried, but he has 
left the core issues which are security and corruption hanging loose.<br />
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If you cannot secure the lives of Nigerians, then I do not see why you 
are there as the Commander-in-Chief of the country. You are keeping some
 of us sleepless.<br />
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Right now, we have a country where kidnapping is the order of the day; a
 country where unemployment is off the roof, about 80 million Nigerians 
unemployed; we have a country that God has blessed with petroleum, but 
we are importing oil and refineries are left unutilised. We have a 
country where the index of growth which is power, is virtually 
non-existent.<br />
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Nigeria is 187 out of 189 on the global index, so we are almost the last
 on the list of countries in terms of availability of power. We generate
 less than 4000 megawatts of electricity for 170 million people; while 
South Africans are 50million people and they generate about 40,000 
megawatts of electricity.<br />
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The president has not dealt with the core issues that would have made 
Nigeria what it ought to be. We know what our foreign reserve was when 
he came in. It was $48 billion; now we know what it is. Naira is going 
down the drain with over N200 to the dollar; our money is almost getting
 valueless. So when you ask me to compare the two, I think that we do 
not have a comparison to make.<br />
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<b>You were the Principal Staff Officer to Buhari when he was the GOC of
 the 4th Division of the Nigerian Army. What do you make of the 
controversy over his missing certificate?</b><br />
Honestly, the certificate issue is very embarrassing to some of us 
because here we are talking about the survival of Nigeria. We know that 
Nigeria is at the brink of collapse and here we are, with one of our 
best Generals, who have trained in the best institutions in Europe and 
America, including the United States War College, which by all standards
 is a Post Graduate institution, and you are talking about school 
certificate.<br />
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I find it ridiculous and unbelievable how our political class could be 
so petty and mundane at this particular crucial time. It is unnecessary 
to go that low because we must win at all cost.<br />
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The certificate saga is something that they should realise that they are
 denigrating the image of Nigeria and not just General Buhari.<br />
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That is one of your best Generals and you are denigrating him. If you 
are the one trying to use a non-issue to disparage Buhari, what should 
outsiders think of us? We must be careful of what we do and not take it 
that far.<br />
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<b>How convinced are you that General Buhari can perform better than Jonathan if he wins the next election?</b><br />
Everybody has antecedents; I have worked under Buhari as his Principal 
Staff Officer when he was a GOC. We know him as incorruptible, we know 
him as being a man of Spartan life, one who is disciplined. We know him 
as a man of his words; his word is his bond, so he can be trusted. He 
has been patriotic, he is an achiever, one that you give a task to, and 
he gets it done.<br />
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To us in the army, we know that there is no doubt that General Buhari is
 vying to become the president of Nigeria virtually for only patriotic 
reasons. I was privileged to visit him in Daura when I went there to 
attend an event; I was amazed to find out that Buhari has only a 
bungalow in his village and nothing more. There were no luxury leather 
chairs there but simple wooden chairs. He lives a Spartan life because 
he does not believe in tampering with money that is not his.<br />
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<b>But many have described Buhari as a religious fanatic? Aren’t you worried about that?</b><br />
To be an effective commander, you have to be seen as being neutral. So in the army we do not tolerate such.<br />
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<b>Playing of naked politics</b><br />
The troops are made up of Christians, Muslims and other religions, and 
you have to command them. So, if anybody is trying to input that Buhari 
is a religious bigot, just know that the person is playing naked 
politics, far from the truth.<br />
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<b>Are you not worried that militants have threatened war if the election does not favour their own candidate?</b><br />
Well I am not surprised that this is coming up because, for long or too 
long we have treated militants and all sorts of law-breakers in this 
country with kid’s gloves. We have even talked of negotiating with Boko 
Haram, people who do not just shoot but also slit throats. They have 
been killing people like goats. It is hard to believe that the 
government spends N24 b annually on the militants for them to guard our 
pipelines. Yet they do not guard the pipelines. They break it and scoop 
oil making us to lose about $1m every day. So if an individual now goes 
to buy warship, you can imagine what is on the ground. A war ship is 
never switched off; it is always on 24 hours of the day. It is expensive
 to maintain it. And that is what an individual has. We have given them 
too much latitude and too much money. It has come to a point where we 
must assert our sovereignty as a people because the country belongs to 
every one of us.<br />
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They buy war ships, build universities abroad and live in luxury while 
the majority wallows in abject poverty. This impunity must stop else 
Nigeria will go down the drain.<br />
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It’s unfortunate that many Nigerians do not know that Nigeria is 
sinking. It must be prevented. When people make such statements, you can
 imagine the state of madness that we are in.</div>
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I dated a guy for a year and last year he broke up with me, saying he 
wants to get baptized. I was shocked and heartbroken when he said that 
to me, because this was a guy I suffered with when he had nothing. I was
 there for him. I loved this guy to pieces before he became rich.<br />
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It's been about 5 months since we separated. In those months I missed 
him so much, was really thinking that he would call me and tell me that 
he wants me back. My birthday passed, no call from him so I gave up hope
 of him ever coming back to me or we just being friends. </div>
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I was shocked when he called me Dec 20th and was like ''I'm sorry I 
forgot your birthday. My conscience has been judging me for not calling 
you.''. I said no problem it's okay. Since that day, he hasn't called. </div>
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Not until this week, he called and said he wants to see me, that he's 
very ill, that there's no one to take care of him. I told him I was not 
coming. He kept on disturbing me so I decided to go see him...</div>
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When I got to his place I found out that he wasn't really sick like he 
said. So we got talking. He told me he wants me back, that my type is 
rare, that he has tried searching for someone like me but to no avail. 
He kept on apologizing to me and said that he has changed. That he knows
 he made a mistake, that he's only human.To cut the long story short, he
 said he wants us back together. He wants us to plan our future as one 
again. Before I left his place I made it clear to him that I am never 
going back to him. </div>
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The thing I don't understand is that whenever I pray for a better 
person, it's him I see in my dreams. If I don't see him in my dreams, he
 calls my phone. I'm confused, even though my heart still wants him 
back, I don't know what to do. </div>
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Some of my friends have told me not to go back to him and some say if 
you still love him go back but give him a tough time. I forgot to 
mention - this guy still holds on to a love note I wrote him while we 
were still together. He showed it to me when I went to see him. I was 
surprised thinking he has long torn it. </div>
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With the suspect postponement of the elections due to pressure on INEC, 
the Presidency has launched a two-pronged war to ensure that President 
Goodluck Jonathan wins the election at all cost.<br />
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The two strategies are to stop Muhammadu Buhari, the APC Presidential 
Candidate from contesting for the post of president against Jonathan and
 the replacement of the INEC Chairman, Prof Attahiru Jega, with a less 
independent-minded person as soon as possible.<br />
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Jega, it was gathered, had been described by hawks around President 
Jonathan of being too independent-minded and ‘uncooperative’ despite 
being given the job by the president.<br />
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<b>Legal war to disqualify Buhari</b><br />
According to Vanguard, competent sources said that the move to remove 
Jega and the legal fireworks against Buhari, would be taken up 
simultaneously this week given the timeframe made possible by the shift.<br />
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The retired general is to be prosecuted by a team of legal luminaries 
for ‘lying on oath’ that he had a school certificate with the Nigerian 
Army when he knew that it was untrue. The plaintiffs are said to have 
settled for trying Buhari for alleged ‘perjury’ instead of outright 
non-possession of certificate following legal advice that the latter 
would be more difficult to prove within the time at their disposal.<br />
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Vanguard learnt that although Jega reluctantly succumbed to pressure 
from the Presidency and its security chiefs to shift the polls, he might
 still not be allowed by the forces to conduct the rescheduled elections
 between March 28 and April 11. Vanguard gathered from competent sources
 that the Presidency was no longer comfortable with Jega and was, 
therefore, working tirelessly to get him out of the commission to pave 
the way for a more ‘trusted hand’ to conduct the rescheduled elections.<br />
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It was learnt that the forces arrayed against the INEC boss had 
convinced the President not to renew Jega’s tenure, which is expected to
 lapse on June 13 this year. The forces, it was learnt, felt that Jega 
was rather too ‘difficult’ to deal with, having not allowed himself to 
be dictated to by anyone since assuming office like other appointees of 
the government.<br />
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It was learnt that in a bid to sweep off Jega from his seat without 
raising any dust, he would be asked to comply with the civil service 
procedure by proceeding on his three months terminal leave with effect 
from March 1, this year since he is expected to retire on June 13.<br />
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<b>S-West gov’s brother may replace Jega</b><br />
Vanguard gathered that in his place, the Presidency was considering 
bringing in another academic from the South-West, who is currently 
heading a tertiary institution in the country. The professor of 
Political Science and International Relations is said to be a sibling of
 a serving governor in the South-West, who is a close ally of President 
Goodluck Jonathan and his party.<br />
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Competent sources also told Vanguard last night that although the name 
of the academic had been made known in security circles, it was not 
clear whether the man had been cleared by the forces with a view to 
sending his name to the National Assembly for possible confirmation, as 
required by law.<br />
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<b>Working against Jonathan’s interest</b><br />
As a prelude to removing Jega from office, some close allies of the 
President had started accusing him of taking side with the opposition to
 undermine the success of Jonathan and his party in the next election. 
Earlier last week, Jonathan’s godfather, Chief Edwin Clark and other 
prominent politicians from the Southern part of the country had accused 
Jega of working against the interest of the president and the PDP and 
asked him to resign from the commission.<br />
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Although no evidence was adduced by Clark and his group to support their
 allegation, they nonetheless called for the arrest of Jega. Similarly, 
Senior Special Assistant to the President on Public Affairs, Dr. Doyin 
Okupe, on Saturday, said Jega had lied about the state of the 
commission’s preparedness for the conduct of the election.<br />
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In the same vein, the National Publicity Secretary of the PDP, Mr. Olisa
 Metuh, accused INEC of working with the opposition to deny its members 
of permanent voter cards in some states. He called on the security 
agents to probe the commission over the development.</div>
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Police Affairs Minister confesses that Him, Obanikoro, Fayose, Met General Momoh Over Ekiti Election

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Minister of Police Affairs Jelili Adesiyan has tacitly admitted that 
there was an encounter between several top officials of the PDP and a 
senior military officer who was badgered to intimidate members of the 
APC to ensure victory for the PDP in the Ekiti State governorship 
election at all cost.<br />
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Sahara Reporters had exclusively released the audiotape of a heated 
session where PDP members, including Adesiyan himself, Governor Ayo 
Fayose, ex-Minister of State for Defense, Musiliu Obanikoro, and Senator
 Iyiola Omisore ordered Brigadier General A.A. Momoh to order troops 
under his control to arrest and detain APC members in a plot to 
guarantee victory for Governor Fayose. </div>
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After the  disclosure, both Governor Fayose and Obanikoro denied the 
authenticity of the tape, with Mr. Obanikoro threatening to sue Sahara 
Reporters. <br />
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even though he tried to lessen the criminal nature of the exchanges by 
claiming that the meeting was to persuade the officer to release some 
detained PDP agents. In addition, the minister stated that the 
atmosphere became charged when Fayose accused the military officer of 
taking a bribe from then Governor Kayode Fayemi. <br />
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Punch reported that the Police Affairs Minister “admitted that there was
 a conversation but it was at a scene in Ado-Ekiti, when Fayose and the 
General engaged in an altercation which almost resulted in a fight.”<br />
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According to the minister, the near physical fight happened after some 
people at the meeting accused Brigadier General Momoh of being bribed by
 Governor Kayode Fayemi and the APC. The accusation “led to a heated 
argument between [the general] and Fayose,” he claimed.<br />
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The paper reported Adesiyan as stating, “Nigerians are not dummies. 
These people are mischievous; somebody recorded the scene but let 
everybody listen to it. Listen to it yourself and get back to me.<br />
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“Fayose accused the General who supervised the Ekiti election of taking 
bribe from Fayemi and APC, that was two days before the election. They 
called me because they said the General disarmed policemen and I told 
him to allow the policemen to do their job.<br />
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“<span style="color: #cc0000;">I was there, Fayose was there, Otunba 
Omisore was there, Senator Obanikoro was there. I am not denying that 
there was a conversation but it was not what they are saying</span>,” the Minister said</div>
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But Obanikoro and Fayose still claimed there was no such meeting. Now, who is lying among them?</div>
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“<b>What I am seeing is heavy. I am seeing rain – the cloud is darker</b>. The fulfillment of 2015 – pray for it.”</blockquote>
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There are evil plans against the 2015 elections. TB Joshua saw it since 
last year and gave a clear warning to all concerned; he said if 
Nigerians we are not careful our Democracy will be rubbished!<br />
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Amidst the controversy swirling around the decision by INEC to postpone 
Nigeria’s elections by six weeks, Prophet T.B. Joshua has released a 
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“Is that not the time of elections? Democracy is sweet – pray that your 
democracy would not be rubbished,” TB Joshua he continued. <br />
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Clarifying further, the cleric added, “I am seeing disagreement at the 
end of the day and that disagreement can result to anything. Nigeria, 
these are the challenges you are going to face – challenges of 
disagreement… They will want to fight; we have to pray.”<br />
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The clip concluded with another segment of Joshua addressing his 
congregation, this time on November 9th 2014. “Pray for your nation,” he
 said. “If you are able to cross this election, you cross it all. The 
election you are about to do will determine Nigeria.”<br />
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The elections, which were scheduled to hold on February 14th 2015, have 
been shifted to 28th March, in a move widely criticized as being 
‘undemocratic’. <br />
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The electoral commission cited security concerns as the reason for the 
postponement with several areas in the north-east of the country still 
under the control of Islamic terrorist group Boko Haram.</div>
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<b>NOTE: Watch the video at the top</b><br />
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<strong>Caroline Sam</strong> who is more popular by her alias, <strong><u>Maheeda</u></strong> is the quite the proud mum as she celebrates her  daughter Divine, who turned 14 today February 9, 2015.</div>
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Maheeda who is a singer and self proclaimed <em>'goddess of x'</em>'
 sharing her n*de photos on the internet and giving her two cents about 
s*x related matters took to Twitter to share her excitement about her 
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Maheeda had her daughter with an expatriate in Port Harcourt when she was only 17.</div>
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<b> Still haven't gotten the message? How about tying the knot on the most 
romantic day of the year? Yes, it is possible and with a well planned 
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 Valentine's Day is just a few days away, and thankfully, this year's Lover's Day happens to be a Saturday.</div>
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<strong>Valentine’s Day-themed invitations:</strong>
 When choosing invitations, consider sending out Valentine’s Day-themed 
invites, and play up the theme of hearts, cupid and love. This will give
 your wedding guests a sense of what is to come on the big day.</div>
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<strong>Red roses:</strong>
 Red roses are often given on Valentine’s Day. Consider using red roses 
in bouquets and center pieces. If you feel the cost of real roses is too
 much for you, then artificial silk roses will do just fine.</div>
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<strong>Red or pink colour scheme:</strong>
 Red and pink are colours typically associated with Valentine’s Day. 
Consider using those two colours when choosing your accent colours. You 
could also tell your wedding guests to dress in white with a touch of 
red or pink for harmony of colours at the venue.</div>
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<strong>Valentine’s Day candy: </strong>If
 you’re having a dessert table at the reception, consider filling it 
with classic Valentine’s Day candy, like candy hearts and heart-shaped 
chocolates. Valentine's Day inspired cupcakes are also a good treat to 
include for cake lovers.</div>
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<strong>Love letters:</strong>
 Share the romance of the day with your guests. Distribute stationary 
for your guests to write a love letter to their significant other on 
Valentine’s Day. You can also invest in colourful sticky notes with 
romantic words inscribed on each page.</div>
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A Higher National Diploma (HND) student of the <strong>Kaduna Polytechnic</strong> showed up at the examination hall in her wedding dress, just a few minutes after saying her vows.</div>
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S*x And Love7 signs that show you’re not your lover’s number 1

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<b>Watch out for these 7 signs:</b></div>
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<strong>Your lover’ spends more time with friends than you.</strong>
 No one should become second place behind friends. Nope, if your partner
 thinks you’re important, then you’ll get a larger chunk of his/her time
 than friends. At worst, you and the friends will be together — but even
 that isn’t so cool.</div>
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<strong>Your lover makes flirty moves with others in your presence. </strong>Nothing
 is as disrespectful as a lover making such moves without regard for 
your feelings. Some will even make a joke about it, or praise another 
man/woman for qualities you lack. Not good at all.</div>
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<strong>You lover avoids public appearances with you. </strong>You
 should run away when you notice that you’re only an indoor-lover, 
hidden from public eyes. If this is happening, you’re just an in-house 
s*x slave.</div>
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<strong>Your lover keeps things from you and then you learn them from others. </strong>Hmm, this is one that gets <em><strong>Wha’anda</strong></em>
 mad. You should be first to know what’s going on in your partner’s 
life. If you have to hear about their decisions, plans etc. from others,
 then why are you lovers?  Is she/he hiding things or you just isn’t 
important enough?</div>
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<strong>Your lover places you behind his job and hobbies.</strong>
 While it is important for your partner to have a paying job and also 
have a hobby, these things should not become more important than you. If
 he or she overrules your opinions just to cover his job or hobby 
demands, or always stays late at work, you might need a rethink of the 
romance.</div>
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<strong>Your partner doesn’t decode or care about your mood.</strong>
 There are some partners that just act like everything is okay when your
 life is turning hell. Run away if you’re with one of them. If he or she
 can’t flow with your mood and at least try to lift your spirits, then 
you’re not in sync.</div>
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<strong> Your lover travels at every flimsy opportunity. </strong>Everybody
 wants to spend time with the people they care for. If you have a 
partner who flies around without showing that you’ll be sorely missed. 
Then you might be no more than a bed-warmer.</div>
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Don't be surprised to know that while all that 
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Can I change position and pretend I’m doing some hot p*rn move so that I can sort of watch Scandal at the same time?</div>
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Ouch, that hurts.</div>
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I JUST THOUGHT ABOUT MY DAD DURING S*X, AB ORT, AB ORT, AB ORT.</div>
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Why isn’t he doing that thing I’ve told him I like at least 83627 times?</div>
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Oh, he’s going to try and ‘accidentally’ slip it in the wrong hole, again.</div>
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I really think I might fart.</div>
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I definitely won’t be able to orgasm if I’m trying this hard not to fart. *thinks about dilemma for 17 seconds*</div>
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Is it wrong that I really want to check my phone? My last tweet was really funny, someone must have retweeted it.</div>
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Oh, that’s good. That’s really good. That wasn’t expected.</div>
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How do I tell him to only do that in the future and none of the other stuff he does without offending him?</div>
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OK, nobody panic, I need a pee. Can I interrupt this or do I just try really hard not to pee on him.</div>
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Relationships come with different ups and downs, 
good times and bad times - but certain rules help to maintain a balance 
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Every couple in any 
relationship may have a lot in common, but they are still different 
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 keep things running smoothly between them, there are certain 
relationship rules that couples must follow. Read on to find out 4 of 
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<b>Honesty:</b> 
Remember the old saying: 'Honesty is the best policy'? That adage is so 
true! If there is anybody you shouldn't lie to at all, it is your 
partner. Both of you need to be completely honest with each other on 
everything and anything. Imagine how hurtful it would be for you to find
 out your spouse's embarrassing secret from someone else. Being truthful
 and completely honest with yourselves makes it easy for you to relate 
with one another on every level.</div>
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<b>Trust:</b>
 Without honesty, there can be no trust. If you have a habit of always 
lying to your partner, don't expect them to trust you. A relationship 
without trust is like a vehicle moving without a driver - eventually, it
 would fall into a ditch. Trust is a requisite for a successful 
relationship, so if you have betrayed your partner's trust, try building
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<b>Respect:</b>
 Mutual respect is another key factor for an enduring relationship. This
 does not particularly have to do with age, it is simply being 
considerate about your partner's feelings before making any decision. It
 doesn't mean you need their permission to do whatever you want, it 
simply means you value their opinion enough to run your plans by them. 
Breaking this particular relationship rule is an avenue for problems to 
creep into your union.</div>
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<b>Appreciation: </b>A
 simple 'thank you' goes a very long way. Appreciating your partner 
boosts their self-esteem and also strengthens your relationship on an 
emotional level. When your man opens the door for you, say thank you; 
when your girlfriend or wife makes that sumptuous meal you love, 
appreciate her effort even if it's not the most amazing dish you've ever
 eaten. This makes for a successful relationship all together.</div>
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 Create time for each other no matter how busy you may be. A stroll down
 the park in the evening, or a day out to just hang out and be in each 
other's company are ways to accomplish this. Never be too busy to pay 
attention to your partner or else, your relationship may be headed for 
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MUST READ: Breaking News-Valentine’s Day will now hold on March 28...In Nigeria

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Good day my fellow Nigerian men,</div>
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We the <strong>Association of Loving Nigerian Men</strong> (ALMN) have released this statement concerning the above stated topic - please read and pass on to our brothers...</div>
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First
 off, let me start by thanking you all for being who you truly are; it 
is not an easy feat to be a man, more so a Nigerian man. Those of you 
who are married work hard for your children and wives (and their 
extended families), some of you are permitted by religion to have more 
than one wife so you take on the overbearing task of having two, three 
of them.</div>
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Those of us who cannot marry more than 
one spend our entire lives hiding relationships from our partners. My 
brothers, it is not easy but we are Nigerian men, we must do it and have
 a strong opinion about it.</div>
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Even my single 
brothers, I know it is not easy as well; with the thousands of girls 
available at your disposal, it is not easy to commit to one. Thank God 
for side chicks, may they remain loyal and quiet as we journey our way 
through life.</div>
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To the matter at hand…</div>
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We
 have now concluded the some people in the Nigerian Government are hell 
bent on frustrating our existence in this country - it has become 
glaring that some unknown persons in high places want to put us to shame
 at all costs. I say some people want our wives, spouses, girlfriends, 
love interests and/or side chicks to say we are incompetent as men. 
Whoever these faceless people are, you will not give our wives, spouses,
 girlfriends, love interests and/or side chicks mouth to talk.</div>
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Last year, the <strong>Independent National Electoral Commission</strong> announced that the 2015 Presidential, Gubernatorial and Legislative elections would be held on February 14, 2015, <strong>Valentine’s Day</strong>. We Nigerian men were mortified, livid and shocked all at once!</div>
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St.
 Valentine (may his good soul rest in peace) took the pain, spent his 
entire life making sure the world took one day out of every year for 
lovers to show their partners some extra love. He literally gave his 
life for the day. Somewhere down the line in Nigeria, that turned into 
men spending lots of money on their women. We don’t complain about the 
status quo, we just do as we are told.</div>
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INEC just had to mess things up this Valentine’s Day in 2015. Jega, you had only one job and you still screwed it up!</div>
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Now,
 let me dispel the rumours we’ve heard about some of we Nigerian men 
being extremely happy that Valentine’s Day would not hold as due to the 
elections; this is a lie. We were sad and totally anguished in our 
hearts. We were so looking forward to making things work this year…</div>
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As
 soon as the news came about, we the Association of Loving Nigerian Men 
(ALMN) got together for a council meeting. Most of our excos took time 
off their busy schedules to attend the emergency meeting.</div>
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We
 came to the conclusion that even though INEC might have wanted to throw
 a monkey wrench in our plans, we would find another means to spend all 
of our January Salary on our women. We then postponed Vals Day to March 
28, 2015 but would disclose this officially on the night of February 13,
 2015.</div>
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We were totally shocked to hear that Jega and his <u>INEC gang have also postponed the Presidential Elections to March 28 also</u>! We have no other cause but to believe that some people just don’t want us to celebrate Vals day!</div>
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The
 ALMN met this morning and have concluded that our Vals Day will still 
hold on March 28, 2015. We will stay at home and be with our women; as 
the election will be held simultaneously, we won’t be going out to any 
dinner or spending money buying anything on that day. For our single 
men, they will stay away from their lovers' houses as the Election day 
requires little movement around town.</div>
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We feel we have to stand our grounds here. Nothing, not even INEC will stop us and we will not move the date again.</div>
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Thank you and stand strong my fellow Nigerian men.</div>
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General Secretary,</div>
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Osagie Alonge.</div>
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OMG: Unbelievable; New born baby pregnant with twins SEE (PHOTO)

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A baby girl was born in 2010 and found to be pregnant with twins in Hong Kong.</div>
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The girl who was born in <strong>Queen Elizabeth Hospital </strong>had to undergo surgery at just three weeks old to remove them.</div>
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The extraordinary goggling incident was detailed in the latest edition of the <strong><em>Hong Kong Medical Journal</em></strong>.</div>
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According to the report, the condition which is known as <strong>foetus in foetu </strong>occurs in just one in 500,000 births in the world.</div>
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The 10-week old gestated foetuses had legs, arms, a spine, rib cage, intestines and were also covered in skin.</div>
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Both foetuses which had umbilical cord, weighed 14.2 grammes and the other 9.3 grammes .</div>
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The surgery was successful and the girl was discharged from hospital eight days later.</div>
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According to <a href="http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/weird-news/baby-girl-born-pregnant-twins-5121154" target="_blank"><u><strong><em>UK Mirror</em></strong></u>,</a> it is believed that this case is the first to be documented in the city.</div>
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"<em>It was almost impossible to detect during the prenatal check-up, as the embryo inside the baby was too small</em>," <strong>Dr Yu Kai-man</strong>, a specialist in obstetrics and gynaecology, said.</div>
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"<em>Since
 it is impossible for the little girl to have conceived the pregnancy on
 her own, the fertilisation of the twin fetuses, of course, belongs to 
her parents, which has gone to the wrong place</em>," said Yu, a former professor at Chinese University of Hong Kong.</div>
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According
 to report, the cause of this abnormality has not been determined but 
the World Health Organisation classified it as a type of cancer and 
suggested it was possibly linked to the mother having multiple 
abortion</div>
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SAD: Dear Aunty Bukky: My boyfriend has never commented on my looks… should I be bothered?

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<em>Hello Aunty Bukky,</em></div>
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<em>My
 name is Fola, I am 25 years old and I’m in a relationship with a 
27-year-old guy I met six years ago while we were still studying at the 
same university. In all our years of dating, not once has my boyfriend 
commented on my looks. </em></div>
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<em>He has never ever
 voiced out what he thinks about my appearance; whether to say I look 
beautiful or ugly. Each time I ask him, he would talk about something 
else instead. I know this may sound like a minor issue, but it’s taking a
 toll on my self-esteem. Do I look so horrible that he just can’t say it
 out loud? He tells me he loves me, but I find it hard to believe at 
times. </em></div>
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<em>Please how do I overcome this problem? Do you think it’s something I should be bothered about or not? Thanks!</em></div>
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Hi Fola,</div>
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I
 absolutely understand you dilemma. While this is not exactly a major 
issue, it is however, disturbing. It is very unusual to be with someone 
for so long and not even have something to say about their appearance. 
That said, I don’t think this really something you should be seriously 
bothered about, especially if he loves you and expresses it too. </div>
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I
 know your self-esteem is taking a blow from this, but you have to 
realize that self-love is the best love. If you love and appreciate 
yourself the way you are, it wouldn’t matter much if your boyfriend is 
not gracious enough to verbally acknowledge it. So long as he is not 
being abusive and treats you well, then there is really no cause for 
alarm.</div>
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Also, you should raise the topic with him 
one of these days when he is in a pleasant mood and you two are having a
 nice time. Ask him why he has never talked about your appearance and 
listen intently to what he has to say.  Till then, be happy with who you
 are and stay beautiful!</div>
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Over
 to you guys, do you have any advice for Fola? If you do, kindly write 
it in the comments box and please, let’s be kind and refrain from using 
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SAD: Dear Aunty Bukky: My boyfriend has never commented on my looks… should I be bothered?

Hello Aunty Bukky, My name is Fola, I am 25 years old and I’m in a relationship with a 27-year-old guy I met six years ago whil...