Gerald Rogers is not a relationship expert, having separated his
lovely wife after 16 years, he is regretting losing the woman he has
loved and the marriage he could have saved, instead, his ego got the
hold of him and he made this terrible mistake, he has this advice.
“I wish I would have done different…
After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years,
here’s the advice I wish I would have had.
“Never stop courting. Never stop
dating. NEVER EVER take that woman for granted. When you asked her to
marry you, you promised to be that man that would OWN HER HEART and to
fiercely protect it.
“Protect your own heart. Just as you
committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own
with the same vigilance. Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but
there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except
for your wife.
“Fall in love over and over again. You will constantly change. You’re not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today.
“Fall in love over and over again. You will constantly change. You’re not the same people you were when you got married, and in five years you will not be the same person you are today.
“Never blame your wife if you get
frustrated or angry at her, it is only because it is triggering
something inside of YOU. They are YOUR emotions, and your
responsibility.
“Allow your woman to just be. When
she’s sad or upset, it’s not your job to fix it, it’s your job to HOLD
HER and let her know it’s ok. Let her know that you hear her, and that
she’s important and that you are that pillar on which she can always
lean.
“Never stop growing together… The
stagnant pond breeds malaria, the flowing stream is always fresh and
cool. Atrophy is the natural process when you stop working a muscle,
just as it is if you stop working on your relationship. Find common
goals, dreams and visions to work towards.
“Don’t worry about money. Money is a
game, find ways to work together as a team to win it. It never helps
when teammates fight. Figure out ways to leverage both persons strength
to win.
“Forgive immediately and focus on the
future rather than carrying weight from the past. Don’t let your
history hold you hostage.
“In the end marriage isn’t about happily ever after. It’s about work. And a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. Through that work, the happiness will come.
“In the end marriage isn’t about happily ever after. It’s about work. And a commitment to grow together and a willingness to continually invest in creating something that can endure eternity. Through that work, the happiness will come.
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