Here's the continuation of the article written by Mayowa Ogundele (HERE) yesterday....enjoy!
I have never heard of a man or woman who married their partner simply because the s*x was astronomical.
As crazy as people get for s*x, it’s usually always NOT reason enough to get married. People may marry for money, fame, “God said”, connection…. but, hardly for s*x. Often times, great s*x is a great incentive.
That’s for some folks though….
So, if we realize that great s*x is never the deciding factor for marriage… why do people dishonor themselves, while single.
Without a doubt, I am pro-celibacy until marriage. However, I agree that s*x is important. It has to be…for
God to say we should wait until marriage.
When I say important, I mean – important for baby making and important for the pleasure it brings.
(Btw, I think a cock’s favorite pastime is s*x… that’s why he will chase the hen to the ends of the earth for it. Lol)
Back to what I was saying… many people say they engage in per-marital s*x so they can be experienced. Once upon a time, I foolishly expected my husband-to-be to be experienced, so that wedding night would be eventful.
Now, I know better.
If you gain all the experience in the world and still marry someone who’s not so great in bed, you are setting yourself up for frustration, infidelity,…. a broken home.
(PS: You may live under the same roof and still have a broken home).
So… what’s the way forward for those who agree that s*x is important but have chosen to do the right thing by waiting…
Get creative!
The desire for s*x is natural… expressing yourself in that regard would also be natural. You don’t have to sleep around first and neither do you have to subscribe to p*rnography.
Talk to your partner about s*x… before marriage. I think people that are engaged should also talk about s*x. What they think of it and what to make of it.
If your man or woman has potential of being a wild cat…find out and get ready
(Caveat: Don’t have this discussion in a private place o. Don’t tempt yourselves).
There are also books by Christian writers on s*x. Try one of those.
When you are married, you are legal… so feel free to explore and show your partner your wild side. Leave the speaking in tongues and bible quoting things and get down to freaky business. Lol.
(My psstor must not see this).
Anyway, this is what I think. That we choose to be children of light does not mean we cannot enjoy God’s gift to the fullest measure. Yes we can!
One final word… S*X IS NOT A DIRTY THING. It is only dirty when you do it wrongly.
What do you think?
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